Predicaments during Courting (Part 1) - 羞 得 无 地 自 容

“Unsuitable and unwanted” singles will ended up with extreme embarrassment and heart breaking moments more often than others.

刻　骨　铭　心　－　”Remember deeply the pain, just like scraping the bone”
Kè gú míng xīn
Photo is obtained from http://www.cooqy.com/blog/images/shame.jpg



Agony of an ugly,old and fat single - 羞　得　无　地　自　容

手　足　无　措　－　”At a loss as to what to do; panic”
Shòu zú wú cuò

手　忙　脚　乱　 － 　”Confused, disorder”
Shòu máng jiǎo luàn

羞　得　无　地　自　容　－　“So ashamed but nowhere to hide”
Xiū dé wú dì zì róng

羞　面　见　人　－　“Ashamed to face people”
Xiū miàn jiàn rén

自　不　量　力 － “Does no known one’s own limitation”
Zì bù liàn lì

刻　骨　铭　心　－　”Remember deeply the pain, just like scraping the bone”
Kè gú míng xīn

感　情　注　定　失　败　－　”Love relationship doomed to failure”
Gǎn qíng zhù dìng shī bài

(失　败　乃　成　功　之　母)　－　”Failure is the mother of success”
Shī bài nǎi chéng gōng zhí mǔ

义　无　反　顾　－　”Never look back, continue on relentlessly”
Yí wú fǎn gù

名　花　有　主　－　”Popular and already attached”
Míng huā yóu zhǔ

鲜　花　插　在　牛　粪　上　－　”Fresh Flowers inserted in cow dung”
Xiān huā chā zài niú fèn shàngíng

癞　蛤　蟆　想　吃　天　鹅　肉　－　”To crave for what one is not worthy of, She's out of you league”
Lài há má xiǎng chī tiān é ròu

癞　皮　狗　－　”a mangy dog, scum-sucking pig, a loathsome creature”
Lài pí gǒu




Photo is obtained from http://fanart.lionking.org/Artists/Agent/Rejected.gif

There are those who wants to be single by choice, for whatever reason, could also have faced awkward situations.
手　足　无　措　－　”At a loss as to what to do; panic”
Shòu zú wú cuò

Dilemmas and predicaments during Courting

Although God has good intention by creating human beings, all to be equal and to enjoy the fruits of love, we cannot deny that imperfectness still occur. There are those who wants to be single by choice, for whatever reason, could also have faced awkward situations. “Unsuitable and unwanted” singles will ended up with extreme embarrassment and heart breaking moments more often than others.

It could be that we are still not well-trained enough to handle comments like the following.

• “Do not introduce such ‘thing’ to me. What others have rejected, I also do not want!”
• “Don’t try your luck again. You are hopeless.”
• “I am like flower on cowshit (鲜花插在牛粪上).”
• “You are a toad dreaming of heavenly crane (癞蛤蟆想吃天鹅肉).”
• “Something must be wrong with you.”
• “I feel ashamed for you.”
• “I am going to call the police.”
• “Try that old auntie; she is very suitable for you.”
• “You are not going to get anything from me. Get lost!”
• “My expectation is higher than this.”
• “Look in the mirror first.”
• “Somebody, help me!”
• “Scum (癞皮狗)”
  

手　忙　脚　乱　 － 　”Confused, disorder”
Shòu máng jiǎo luàn
Photo is obtained from http://www.bamkapow.com/rejected-iron-man-movie-designs--664-p.html


Kinder version but similar message:

• “I am not free for you. Mon – Fri have to work overtime. Weekends, I want to sleep.”
• “I know you are a nice person, but I am not suitable for you”
• “I am very sorry. I am already attached (名花有主)”
• “Maybe you try getting a foreign wife, for example, from china or Vietnam.”
• “We are not fated to be together.”

Photo is obtained from http://screenrant.com/images/ironRECOIL3.jpg
感　情　注　定　失　败　－　”Love relationship doomed to failure”
Gǎn qíng zhù dìng shī bài


Other disadvantages and difficulties

For those who are less equal cannot help but sense what the world is thinking. Those not endowed with appreciable physical attributes can expect to receive lectures on how much “sacrifices” others have to make. These “seriousness” are always emphasized whenever opportunity arises. Stormy glares accompany by the following comments are common.

• “Do not pollute the nice environment meant for nice and beautiful people.”
• “Why are you interrupting the harmony with your appearance?”
• “Visually: no contribution and value added.”
• “The brain smells and cannot tolerate such ‘stinking’ sight.”
• “Garbage should stay where it belong.”

义　无　反　顾　－　”Never look back, continue on relentlessly”
Yí wú fǎn gù
Photo is obtained from http://screenrant.com/images/IRONBIG_FRONT4.jpg


Heavenly lib services for the more fortunate

In this world, there are still people who still afford to offer a smile while providing services. This may sound amazing but it is true.

• “You are the sunshine of my day!”
• “Welcome you 24/7.”
• “Please do not hesitate to ask for assistance.”
• “You look stunning today!”
• “I cannot imagine what will happen without you.”

羞　得　无　地　自　容　－　“So ashamed but nowhere to hide”
Xiū dé wú dì zì róng
Photo is obtained from http://powet.tv/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2006/09/IronFlyCity.jpg


Reference
http://www.merriam-webster.com/
http://www.cooqy.com/blog/images/shame.jpg
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/47/169660243_ecaf8fae90.jpg
http://www.bamkapow.com/ul/288-ironRECOIL3.jpg
http://www.bamkapow.com/rejected-iron-man-movie-designs--664-p.html
http://fanart.lionking.org/Artists/Agent/Rejected.gif
Philips Collegues (Young, Old, Male and Female)

Prunes & My health

Tropical Fruits

Prunes - common varieties are French, Imperial, Italian, and Green Gage

Giant Prunes - sweet with a deep taste and a sticky chewy texture


Prunes - oval shape and a removable pit


Prunes - dried fruit is wrinkly in texture, and chewy on the inside


Giant Prunes - highest antioxidant of any fruit

Whole tree loaded with unripe prunes during the month of june


Facts about Prunes
Prunes are sweet with a deep taste and a sticky chewy texture, prunes are not only fun to eat but they are also highly nutritious. They are available all year round.

Fresh prunes have an oval shape and a easily removed pit. The dried fruit is wrinkly in texture, and chewy on the inside.

Four of the most common varieties are French, Imperial, Italian, and Green Gage.

Prunes also have the highest antioxidant of any fruit and its juice is fiber-rich.


Health benefits

(Adapted from http://jeenaskitchen.blogspot.com/2007/11/health-benefits-of-prunes.html)

They contain an antioxidant 'Phenols' which prevent damages cause by a dangerous oxygen radical called superoxide anion radical. Also they have proved to help prevent damage to our body fats.



Prunes has high content of Beta Carotene which is neccessary in cancer fighting and can help prevent conditions like heart disease, therosclerosis, colon cancer and diabetes.

Also this vitamin is known to reduce severe inflammatory conditions like osteoarthritis, asthma and rheumatoid arthritis.

Prunes help lower cholesterol through binding bile acids and carrying them out of the body through the feces. Bile acids come from the liver to digest fats, when prunes carry out this bile, the liver has to produce more, thus using up more cholesterol which means lesser cholesterol in our circulation.

Prunes prevent constipation. It provide bulk and decrease the transit time of fecal matter. This also decreases the risk of colon cancer.



When prunes are in the large intestine they provide 'food' for the friendly bacteria. When the prunes are fermented by this friendly bacteria they produce a short chain fatty acid called butyric acid which helps keep the colon healthy.



Also 2 other short chain fatty acids are created, propionic acid and acetic acid which the liver and muscles use as a fuel.



The soluble fiber in prunes can help normalize blood sugar levels. It delays the absorption of glucose into the blood by slowing down the rate at which food leaves the stomach. This soluble fiber increases insulin sensitivity which is useful in preventing and treating type 2 diabetes. Also prunes give a sense of 'fullness' after eating a meal which can prevent over eating in obese people.



Prunes are high in potassium which is essential for heart function and normal blood pressure.One quarter of a cup of prunes contains a 316.6 mg of potassium but only 1.7 mg of sodium. This help to prevent atherosclerosis and high blood pressure.



The high amount of potassium in prunes may also help in bone conditions. High salt diets lead to urinary calcium loss which causes thinning of the bones. The high potassium levels in prunes may counteract this.



Prunes contain amino acids and vitamins that help the body to absorb iron.



Prunes can be used as a natural sweetener. They are very sweet in taste and are a great alternative to sugar.





Prunes Nutrition Facts
From http://www.whfoods.com/genpage.php?tname=foodspice&dbid=103

Prunes - 0.25 cup - 42.50 grams - 101.58 calories Nutrient Amount DV (%) Nutrient Density World's Healthiest Foods Rating vitamin A 844.48 IU 16.9 3.0 good dietary fiber 3.02 g 12.1 2.1 good potassium 316.63 mg 9.0 1.6 good copper 0.18 mg 9.0 1.6 good World's Healthiest Foods Rating Rule excellent DV>=75% OR Density>=7.6 AND DV>=10% very good DV>=50% OR Density>=3.4 AND DV>=5% good DV>=25% OR Density>=1.5 AND DV>=2.5%

In-Depth Nutritional Profile for Prunes

Prunes - Both fresh and dried are valuable

From: http://picasaweb.google.com/jon88888jon/jDKJJF30#5194454919401176354

Two plums The plum is a stone-fruit tree in the genus Prunus. Its fruit is sweet, juicy and edible, and it can be eaten fresh, or dried, in which case they are known as prunes. The plum blossom, along with the peony, are considered traditional floral emblems of China.

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www.prunes.net/
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